Mediation of Pre-Nuptial Agreement

What Is Prenuptial Agreement Mediation?

A prenuptial agreement (often called a “prenup”) is a written agreement between two people who intend to get married.

A prenup typically addresses how financial matters between the parties will be addressed in the event of a separation or divorce. While prenups are not necessary for all couples, they may be quite helpful for many, especially for those entering a second marriage or marrying later in life. In many cases, the discussions leading up to a prenup can clarify each person’s expectations from the marriage and help the couple start their life together from a place of collaboration and transparency.

In some cases, this conversation, though necessary, can be challenging and uncomfortable. Participating in a prenup mediation to discuss financial issues prior to a marriage can help a couple reach an agreement in a setting that is both respectful of each person’s present and future circumstances, and takes into consideration the concerns and priorities of both parties.

Mediating prenups offers the couple the opportunity to work together, be transparent, understand each other and have difficult conversations revolving around finances. These are essential skills for a successful marriage.

Prenuptial agreement mediation is a private, cooperative process led by a neutral prenuptial agreement mediator, Bill Leininger, who helps both partners design an agreement that reflects their goals and values. With the help of a skilled family law mediator, you create terms that feel balanced and respectful.

How Prenup Mediation Differs from Hiring Separate Prenup Attorneys

Instead of starting from a position of fear or conflict, mediation helps couples openly discuss concerns and expectations and arrive at a fair and mutually supportive agreement.

The use of Mediation in reaching an agreement as to the terms of the PreNup encourages honest, respectful communication between the couple. Mediation also allows you to customize the terms of your marriage, rather than relying on New York state law. Mediation helps to protect the financial security of the parties in the future, while preserving your relationship. Traditional prenup negotiations can sometimes feel one-sided or adversarial. Mediation offers an alternative: a guided conversation where both partners have an equal voice.

Who Can Benefit from a Prenuptial Agreement in New York?

Mediation is ideal for couples who want to start a marriage with transparency, trust, and a shared understanding. If you and your fiancé are seriously considering having a preNuptial Agreement, please call our office at 718-979-5200 to schedule a Free 15 minute Zoom videoconference to discuss the benefits of using Mediation to negotiate a fair PreNuptial Agreement.